Not everyone is gifted in the bedroom. Experience, stamina, open-mindedness, size (yes it does matter to some women), these are some of the factors that come into play when she’s judging you in bed. There are a lot more but we’ll save this for another post. Here, we’ll be looking at 6 signs that you may be a bad lover.
She Does Not Reach Orgasm
This one is pretty straightforward and obvious. No, there’s nothing wrong with her and it’s not her problem. It’s actually you and your problem. If your woman doesn’t climax, then she’s left unfulfilled. If you have a problem with lasting long enough for her to reach orgasm, include more foreplay into your encounters. Try to get her to that special place before you start pumping away. Often, when a woman experiences an orgasm during oral sex, for example, it will be easier for her to have another one during intercourse. Take your time to make her feel good before going into overdrive. Spending more time on foreplay ensures a better experience for her and you both.
She’s Quiet
Dead silence is never a good sign. Silent sex is usually a sign that your woman isn’t excited. You can chalk it down to her being shy or her holding back. If you think this is the case, encourage her to be more vocal during sex. If all you hear is crickets during your playtime, it can be a sign of your poor performance and inability to excite her.
She Stops You in the Middle of an Act
This one hurts. We’ve all been there at some point. You’re in between her legs giving her, what you think, is the best oral pleasure she’s ever gotten. Then, suddenly, she pulls you up and away from her sweet spot. This is usually a sign that she’s bored and wants to move on to something else. It’s the equivalent of a pitcher getting pulled from the game. Watch her level of excitement when she does this. There are cases when a woman just can’t stand not having you inside her for another second. This is a good sign! Keep an eye on her when she gives you the pull.
She Has to Tell You What to Do
If she’s constantly giving you directions then there’s a good chance you have no idea what you’re doing. Pay attention to your woman. See what gets her motor running and what does not. Every woman is different and it’s your job to know what your woman likes.
You’re Done but She Wants More
Some people say it’s good to leave a woman wanting more. I couldn’t disagree more. When you’re laying there, satisfied and content with what you just experienced, and she’s obviously wanting more, there’s a possibility she’s not satisfied. She wants more because what she just had simply wasn’t enough to quench her thirst. Leaving a woman wanting more isn’t a good thing. It’s a sign that the sex she just had was insufficient.
She Fakes her Orgasms
Dude, this is where you should really be worried. She feels bad for you. She can’t have an orgasm and feels so sorry for you that she fakes it. Sad. There’s nothing worse than when she has to fake her orgasms to spare your ego. Take this as a serious sign that something is lacking in your performance. It’s time to do something about your shortcomings.
Don’t be discouraged. There are a lot of ways you can improve your sexual prowess. Luckily, we’ve got all the information we need at the click of a button now. One thing that will guarantee a better performance on your part is increasing the level of foreplay. Get her excited. Kissing is a great way to get the juices flowing. Talk dirty to her, tease her. You should be warming things up even before you get to the bedroom. Build up the level of anticipation and I assure you, she’ll view you as a better lover.
6 Signs You’re Bad in Bed
Not everyone is gifted in the bedroom. Experience, stamina, open-mindedness, size (yes it does matter to some women), these are some of the factors that come into play when she’s judging you in bed. There are a lot more but we’ll save this for another post. Here, we’ll be looking at 6 signs that you may be a bad lover.
She Does Not Reach Orgasm
This one is pretty straightforward and obvious. No, there’s nothing wrong with her and it’s not her problem. It’s actually you and your problem. If your woman doesn’t climax, then she’s left unfulfilled. If you have a problem with lasting long enough for her to reach orgasm, include more foreplay into your encounters. Try to get her to that special place before you start pumping away. Often, when a woman experiences an orgasm during oral sex, for example, it will be easier for her to have another one during intercourse. Take your time to make her feel good before going into overdrive. Spending more time on foreplay ensures a better experience for her and you both.
She’s Quiet
Dead silence is never a good sign. Silent sex is usually a sign that your woman isn’t excited. You can chalk it down to her being shy or her holding back. If you think this is the case, encourage her to be more vocal during sex. If all you hear is crickets during your playtime, it can be a sign of your poor performance and inability to excite her.
She Stops You in the Middle of an Act
This one hurts. We’ve all been there at some point. You’re in between her legs giving her, what you think, is the best oral pleasure she’s ever gotten. Then, suddenly, she pulls you up and away from her sweet spot. This is usually a sign that she’s bored and wants to move on to something else. It’s the equivalent of a pitcher getting pulled from the game. Watch her level of excitement when she does this. There are cases when a woman just can’t stand not having you inside her for another second. This is a good sign! Keep an eye on her when she gives you the pull.
She Has to Tell You What to Do
If she’s constantly giving you directions then there’s a good chance you have no idea what you’re doing. Pay attention to your woman. See what gets her motor running and what does not. Every woman is different and it’s your job to know what your woman likes.
You’re Done but She Wants More
Some people say it’s good to leave a woman wanting more. I couldn’t disagree more. When you’re laying there, satisfied and content with what you just experienced, and she’s obviously wanting more, there’s a possibility she’s not satisfied. She wants more because what she just had simply wasn’t enough to quench her thirst. Leaving a woman wanting more isn’t a good thing. It’s a sign that the sex she just had was insufficient.
She Fakes her Orgasms
Dude, this is where you should really be worried. She feels bad for you. She can’t have an orgasm and feels so sorry for you that she fakes it. Sad. There’s nothing worse than when she has to fake her orgasms to spare your ego. Take this as a serious sign that something is lacking in your performance. It’s time to do something about your shortcomings.
Don’t be discouraged. There are a lot of ways you can improve your sexual prowess. Luckily, we’ve got all the information we need at the click of a button now. One thing that will guarantee a better performance on your part is increasing the level of foreplay. Get her excited. Kissing is a great way to get the juices flowing. Talk dirty to her, tease her. You should be warming things up even before you get to the bedroom. Build up the level of anticipation and I assure you, she’ll view you as a better lover.